Clearly there is a right and wrong way to do it, and a learning curve — few guys start off as bottoming champions. If you want to be a cum dump, do it the right way. At the point of orgasm, the stretching of the sphincter muscle and pressure on the prostate strengthens the sensation of contraction in much the same way as mentioned above, for females. Isle of Wight, UK Gender: As with everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. Do not live in fear of bleeding — stress and sex phobia are more unhealthy than most other ailments — but know that your likelihood for anal injury is higher if you are a cock-loving bitch who loves getting pounded. Another possible reason for the lack or absence of a refractory period in men may be an increased infusion of the hormone oxytocin.
At its best, bottoming is a mind-blowing and carnal experience that feels really good.
17 Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming
However, when you see red, it is a sign that you have gone too rough or perhaps have not used enough lube, and it is time to stop. Consume high amounts of fiber. Orgasmic function for a male depends in part on healthy functioning of the smooth muscles surrounding the prostateand of the pelvic floor muscles. Good sex is about exchanging power and playing with different degrees of dominance and submission. This works for most guys too, although douching bulbs and enemas will not clean your ass as deeply and thoroughly as hoses and shower attachments can.
In addition to physical stimulation, orgasm can be achieved from psychological arousal alone, such as during dreaming nocturnal emission for males or females or by orgasm control. The opening and closing of this muscle on its own can be very erotic. Again, fiber will aid the healing process of both these common ailments that befall bottoms. Drugs come with a plethora of risks all on their own. Metamucil is part of my daily routine. InMasters and Johnson published pivotal research about the phases of sexual stimulation. Human orgasms usually result from physical sexual stimulation of the penis in males typically accompanying ejaculationand the clitoris in females.