And, you know, lots of people cope with stress, and manage to get very, very drunk, without changing their sexuality. I found out two weeks ago that my boyfriend had kissed another man. Some lesbians are in heterosexual marriages. I always tell my partner, up-front, that I demand safer sex. Sign up for Updates.
Kristine, Michigan, age
My boyfriend kissed another man: does that mean he's gay?
I had always been attracted to girls. Experts estimate than about one out of 10 people may be lesbian or gay, and many historically famous women were lesbians. Sign up Get text and email updates. I found out two weeks ago that my boyfriend had kissed another man. The next day, he texted the same man inappropriate messages, asking to meet again and proceed further than kissing the messages were apparently sent while my boyfriend was very drunk. Yes, your boyfriend needs to work out his sexuality, but he needs to do it on his own. But this encounter demonstrates that he is still not sure.
I always tell my partner, up-front, that I demand safer sex. Going out with men may not interest you. This is not to say that it s been easy, because at times it s unbearable, but if I could change my sexual orientation, I would not. Lesbians who are at risk are those who: It was accepting it that was [the question]. Chose a friend your own age, a sibling, parent, or other adult, such as a guidance counselor, social worker in your school or in a local counseling or youth-serving agency.